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Today we will talk about a jewel that is much more than a simple accessory: the commitment ring.

Used as a symbol of a serious relationship, the engagement ring has become a tradition. So much so that, today, there are many different models.

Amid so many options, we will show you in this article what you should take into account before buying the ideal engagement ring.


  • The commitment ring identifies a couple who are in a stable relationship and who wish to have a symbol of their commitment.
  • Although there are several models for sale, the commitment ring has the tradition to follow some standards as colour and size.
  • In this article, we will show you everything about this piece and how to observe the characteristics that differentiate one model from another to buy the ideal engagement ring.

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Buying Guide

At first sight it may seem simple to buy a commitment ring. But the fact is that it is a piece that represents a big step in the relationship. That is why it is important to make the right choice.

To help you to know everything about the commitment ring, we have created this Buying Guide that will help you to make the best decision when buying the ideal ring.

Mão de homem colocando anel de compromisso na mão da mulher.

The commitment ring is the symbol of commitment of a couple of lovers.
(Source: Antonio Guillem / 123rf)

What is a commitment ring?

The commitment ring is, as the name suggests, a ring that symbolises the commitment between two people.

Therefore, engagement rings and wedding rings can also be considered as types of wedding bands.

However, the term "commitment ring" has come to be known to represent the couples of lovers who wish to express their commitment to their partner.

Originating in Europe, the tradition of exchanging rings began because they reflect the infinite with their circumference, without beginning and without end.

Anel prateado.

The commitment ring that seals the lovers' relationship is traditionally made in silver.
(Source: tung256 / Pixabay)

This piece, which is also known as a dating ring, is worn by couples who have reached a level of greater stability in their relationship, and even share the same pillow, but have no intention of getting married yet.

And, exactly because it is a dating ring, according to the tradition, it is not any piece that can be considered as a commitment ring.

According to experts, the engagement ring is made of valuable material such as gold, silver, steel and diamond stones, for example. But in the case of the engagement ring, the correct material would be silver.

The commitment ring is used by couples who have reached a level of greater stability in their relationship.

However, as we will see in the Purchase Criteria, nowadays there are commitment rings made with cheaper materials, but they are still a great option to buy.

In addition, the tradition also tells us to wear the engagement ring on the ring finger of the right hand. Yes, the same hand and finger where the engagement ring is worn.

But, as we will see below, there are several differences between the engagement ring and the engagement ring.

What is the difference between the engagement ring and the wedding ring?

Wearing the engagement ring is already a tradition in Brazil and worldwide. This is usually the first ring that the couple exchanges to symbolize the relationship between the two, but still in the dating phase.

And this is precisely the first difference between the engagement ring and the engagement ring.

Although the engagement ring is a kind of promise ring, this piece means that the next step of the relationship will be the marriage and children.

However, the engagement ring, because it is worn during the courtship phase, does not mean that there will be engagement and, later, marriage. It is only a symbol of the stability of the courtship.

Mão de mulher colocando anel de compromisso na mão do homem.

Both the commitment ring and the engagement ring are worn on the ring finger of the right hand.
(Source: FrankWinkler / Pixabay)

Apart from the differences in meaning, there are also aesthetic differences when comparing the engagement ring with the wedding band.

The engagement ring is a piece, in general, simpler than the engagement ring. That is, with less brightness and design, in general, more discreet.

Another characteristic that marks the physical difference between the two pieces is the fact that the engagement ring is traditionally made of yellow gold. While, as we have seen, the engagement ring is usually made of silver.

The engagement ring symbolises a stage of the relationship, although there is still no intention of getting married as occurs with the engagement ring.

But if you still prefer a commitment ring made with gold, experts recommend that you give preference to models made in white gold.

This way, you can differentiate the engagement ring from the engagement ring.

Below, you can see the main differences between the engagement ring and the engagement ring:

Engagement ring Engagement ring
Meaning Serious and stable dating Marriage in sight
Design Simple and discreet Free
Material Silver Gold
Worn on the Right hand Right hand

What should you engrave on the engagement ring?

Even before you buy the engagement ring we recommend that you take the time to think about the engravings made on the pieces.

This is another tradition that accompanies all wedding rings: commitment, engagement and wedding rings.

The most traditional is that the engagement ring of one has the name of the other engraved. However, even the types of engraving possible has evolved and diversified.

Nowadays, it is possible to buy the engagement ring already with letters or symbols engraved on the ring.

Par de alianças com gravação interna “You and me” (você e eu).

Traditionally, the engagement ring has words, dates or phrases engraved inside the piece.
(Source: StockSnap
/ Pixabay)

But if you purchase a plain jewel, you can also have the message engraved on the engagement ring after you make the purchase.

In addition, you can choose whether you want the same engraving on the two rings or if you prefer to engrave different and / or complementary messages in each engagement ring.

To help spark your creativity, see below the most common engravings made on wedding rings:

  • Names
  • Dates
  • Letters
  • Symbols
  • Phrases

Just remember to take into account that, in very thin rings, the engraving of words or drawings will be smaller which, depending on the option, may be difficult to see.

Moreover, the specialists recommend that the engraving must be made in the internal part of the commitment ring. But this is not a rule.

What are the advantages of the commitment ring?

If you and your partner (o) decided to represent your relationship using a commitment ring, know that this piece has many advantages.

To start, the promise ring has the advantage of ensuring the security of the couple in relation to the relationship.

It is as if you were always together, even with so many commitments on a daily basis. And when you meet you can still spice up the relationship.

Besides, as the commitment ring is usually made of silver, this is a versatile piece that matches with any look, with other jewels and in any situation.

However, this piece also has disadvantages. The engagement ring, being generally a jewel, is not usually a cheap item. Therefore, the rings made with noble materials demand a high investment.

Below, you can see the main advantages and disadvantages of the commitment ring:

  • Represents affection, union and commitment
  • Symbolic value
  • Versatile accessory
  • It does not mean engagement or marriage
  • Investment can be high

How much does it cost?

The price of the engagement ring varies a lot depending on the manufacturing material and brand. Therefore, in general, you will find the engagement ring costing between R4 30 and R$ 1.000.

Of course, you do not need to buy the most expensive one. Nowadays, it is possible to find a unique and quality engagement ring for affordable prices.

Purchase criteria: What to consider before choosing your engagement ring

Now that you know the meaning of an engagement ring and how you should wear it, it's time to choose the ideal pair of rings.

To do this you need, among other things, to understand what differentiates one model of engagement ring from another.

Therefore, we have selected for you the main factors that must be taken into account before buying the engagement ring:

  • Material of manufacture
  • Design
  • Numbering
  • Engraving

Below, we will explain each of these factors in detail for you to make the best decision and invest in the ideal engagement ring.

Material of manufacture

The first factor that you should note before buying the engagement ring is the manufacturing material.

As we have seen, traditionally this type of ring is made in silver. However, nowadays you can choose other materials that look like silver and are even cheaper and more resistant.

Thus, among the metals most used in the manufacture of the engagement ring you will find, besides silver, stainless steel and tungsten.

If you choose the silver commitment ring, it is necessary to check the degree of purity of this metal used in the production of the piece.

Par de alianças sobre um livro aberto.

The commitment ring can be made of silver or other types of metals, natural or not.
(Source: jeffbalbalosa
/ Pixabay)

To be considered a silver jewel, the engagement ring must have at least 80% purity of this metal in its composition.

To know this data, keep an eye on some models that bring a numbering that means the percentage of the metal as, for example, the commitment ring of Silver 950 that has 95% of purity in its composition.

However, it is worth remembering that silver is a soft metal and, therefore, it is a material more susceptible to scratches and damages.

Another disadvantage of silver is that it is easy to oxidize, which causes the jewel to darken over time and therefore needs more care and maintenance.

The commitment ring made in stainless steel has a great cost benefit, great durability, resistance to corrosion and is the best option for allergic people.

But you can also choose the engagement ring made with tungsten, a natural metal and one of the most resistant that exist.

Therefore, the engagement ring produced with tungsten does not dent, does not suffer scratches or scratches and does not need to be polished. In addition, this type of material maintains a strong and natural shine.

The major disadvantage of tungsten, however, is that it is a metal that is difficult to be adjusted.

Stainless steel and tungsten are great alternatives because they are anti-corrosive, highly durable, and aesthetically similar to silver.

In other words, if you choose a tungsten wedding ring, you will not have the possibility of enlarging or reducing the numbering of the ring. What may be necessary if you lose weight or get fat.

Moreover, the tungsten also hinders the engraving of names, dates or messages inside the ring.

Check below the main differences between the most used manufacturing materials in the engagement ring:

Silver Stainless Steel Tungsten
Origin Nature Manufaturing Nature
Durability and resistance High Very high Very high
Suffer corrosion Yes No
Can be adjusted Yes No
Antiallergic No Yes No
Engraving Easy Easy Difficult


The second factor that you should take into account before investing in the engagement ring is the design.

In this aspect it is necessary that you take into account some variables, but the main one is certainly the style of the couple. The good news is that, nowadays, there are options for all tastes.

You will find, for example, rings with a more rounded design, other more square, with a thin or thick rim.

For you to have an idea, in general, the engagement ring has width that varies between 4mm and 9mm.

Homem de terno e gravata, sentado no banco, com aliança de prata larga no dedo anelar direito.

The engagement ring with wide design can create a unique and modern style.
(Source: StockSnap / Pixabay)

Experts agree that, thinner wedding rings are, in general, more delicate and discreet.

However, models that contain a wider width can be more versatile and original, indicated especially for less formal couples.

In addition, you may opt for a simpler design, without the application of stones or other types of metals, or for a more sophisticated model.

However, most of the engagement rings usually have other materials that make the piece exclusive, such as Swarovski stones and cubic zirconia, which is a diamond substitute.


Next, we recommend that you take into consideration the numbering of the engagement ring.

The size of the adult ring is expressed in numbers ranging from 10 to 35. Each of these numbers corresponds to the measurement in centimetres of the diameter of the finger.

For example, the ring size number 10 corresponds, in general, to 5cm; while the largest ring number 35, corresponds to 7.5cm.

There are tutorials on the Internet showing how to discover the size of the ring.

However, you will also find the anatomic commitment ring. This type is more comfortable and, in general, is produced in a smaller number than the one you should use.

For example, if your hoop is 13, your anatomic wedding ring should be a size 12, so that it fits your finger better.

Remembering that, if you opt for a ring of stainless steel or of tungsten the size of the ring will not be able to be adjusted later.

Hence the importance of investing not only in the right material, but mainly in numeration that corresponds to the diameter of the ring finger of the right hand.


Finally, our recommendation is that you also check if the manufacturer brand of the commitment alliance performs the service of engraving on the pieces.

It is true that most of the manufacturers include in the sale the option of you to choose what you want to engrave inside the engagement ring, either name, date, phrase and even drawings.

However, as this is not a rule, it is worth checking before to avoid an increase of expenses after making your purchase.

(Source of the highlighted image: Viparat Kluengsuwanchai / 123rf)